Robert Siciliano, an identity theft expert and consultant for the security company Intelius, has posted fictitious profiles on dating websites for his job and says it's never long before a potential thief is in contact and professing love. They tell me how much they miss me and think about me." Then, says Siciliano, "they are in your home, rifling through your drawers, getting your account information." Dating services efforts Of course, online dating companies strive for customer protection.
For instance, Pasadena, Calif.-based dating site e Harmony's publishes safety tips on their home page, in "5 Dating Rules You Should Never Break," including "if a potential date's actions or words set off an internal alarm system, you owe it to yourself to pay attention and act accordingly." Encounter a con?
J., the Internet is good at disguising true intent. Sixty to 90 percent of human communication is nonverbal, so you're missing so much.
You're at a severe disadvantage." Andersen met her now ex-husband via an online dating service and says he lied about everything, took all her money and left her deep in debt.
In response, she founded Lovefraud.com, a resource to help others detect and recover from romance con artists.
However, due to the anonymous nature of the process, hazards abound.Your credit and other financial interests may be at risk if you don't guard yourself from those falsely fishing for companionship.Here's how to protect more than just your heart when seeking a mate via the Internet.Don't publish your phone number or birth date, as that information can be used to perpetuate ID theft.Siciliano believes credit monitoring services can help make sure accounts aren't tampered with while dating online.