Playmatedating com

However, what I discovered was that after yrs of putting my own life on hold while I was married & making the wants & needs of my wife & children my first priority; I sort of lost myself in the process.So when I unexpectedly found myself single at the age of 50, I also discovered I didn’t really know myself all that well. “A soul-mate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys that fit our locks.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.Received this from a Friend a few Years Ago Soulmate Vs Playmate... They are so much fun to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this has to be our Soul mate.I thought it would be a nice gesture to bring it back again for the newbies to read. I am sure it will ring true for many others just as it did for me. I'm going to be digesting those words for a very long time. I just stumbled across this thread and it was great to read Gary's beautiful post.. There is laughter and a special form of communication only the two of you share....there is a hunger to be close to that person when u are apart....there's a sense of ease...total peacefulness..u are together... I would also like to hear what everyone thinks the definition of Soulmate is as well.I do feel a relationship can be developed if you give it a chance. If people have walls built they may never find the ONE they are looking for.

Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...

The author, Richard Bach, describes soul mates as "A soul mate is someone who has the locks to fit our keys, and the keys to fit our locks.

When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we; we can be loved for who we are and for who we're pretending to be. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we are safe in our paradise.

I agree with you Silver Ion, I like to get all of that stuff out of the way before we can become serious. When I began dating about 2 yrs ago my first priority was to find my soul mate & begin a new relationship.

There are certain things that are very important to me in a relationship that I'm not wanting to wait for 6 months or even a year to find out about and then realize I'm unhappy and need another solution. While the last 10 yrs of my marriage were difficult, the wonderful memories of the 1st 20 yrs completely overshadowed everything else & made me yearn to have someone special in my life. I still miss not having someone special to share my life with.