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We don’t feel any great need to search for our own soul — never mind for our soulmate. We need to learn to get satisfaction from giving, not from taking.
When both people give to each other 100 per cent, the rewards are endless.
, is the Jewish Chaplain at Concordia University and has helped hundreds of singles break through the 'singles wall'. Who are you to know what is settling and what isn’t?
He founded JMatchmaking International (a network of Jewish dating sites) and has made over fifty successful matches so far, hence the "Love Rabbi" moniker. Dating should never begin with what we have, it must begin with what we lack.
So many great relationships end because the couple does what I call the "date to death." There is a natural evolution to a relationship.
The initial courtship, getting to know each other, getting more serious, the proposal, engagement and then marriage (there is also a progression to marriage, but we'll save it for another time).
That’s why we’ve created our unique Compatibility Matching System, which matches singles based on the factors that make them truly ‘click’.But you certainly don't have to be Jewish to make good use of his advice. You don’t go into a relationship because you have something, you go into a relationship because you are missing something.And only by identifying the one big thing that you are missing are you guaranteed to find someone who actually makes you feel whole. Today, we have our own jobs, our own homes; we can afford to go on nice vacations and buy ourselves new clothes.So no matter where in Canada you are, you can be sure that e Harmony is matching you with potential Jewish singles who live locally (if this is your preference).And when you’re ready to communicate with these local Jewish singles, our Guided Communication system allows you to ask the important questions first, so that you really know who you’re talking to before you decide to meet.