Wait a minute, so you’re telling me that I can’t play video games, drink booze, watch netflix and smoke who knows what everyday and be attractive to high quality women? To attain a relationship with the woman of your dreams, you need to create an ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.When you’re coming from this frame of mind, you demonstrate that you are a man of value. Being a man of value is not something you can fake with little tricks and gimmicks, it’s something you are or you aren’t. Stop rejecting yourself by not even talking to women you see all around you.
– Bobbe Sommer When you start thinking like this, you start liking girls that remotely show any signs of interest in you.
Over 1.3 million people every year have died in a car accident whereas not one person has died from saying “hello” to a girl. See, once you know and understand the kinds of personality traits that attract women, then you focus on cultivating those traits in yourself. or did I just make that up 😉Women want men who will change the world around them and men who change the world take massive action and What women really love is a guy that has ambitions and goals in life.
Get in touch with your adventurous side and make an effort to develop your sense of humor, self confidence and social skills. Failure is also good because you learn from it and then it becomes SUCCESS. Remember, it’s all a learning experience and your on your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. A man who goes for his dreams and lives purposefully is also a man with the power to allure.
It’s not a bad thing to be soft and vulnerable inside, but just be aware that women are not necessarily ATTRACTED to the soft, limp man until she’s first seen the HARD side of him.
Because when you’re soft (expressing feminine character), you put the woman above you on a pedestal (forcing her to take on the masculine role).